The whole situtaion disgusts me. It makes me think that there are some people out there that always need to be angry or always need to be a victim.
What I'm talking about is the recent debacle between Miss California and celebrity blogger Perez Hilton. During the Miss USA competition (the last round I believe), openly gay Hilton asked Miss California her views on gay marriage, and this was her response;
"We live in a land where you can choose same-sex marriage or opposite. And you know what, I think in my country, in my family, I think that I believe that a marriage should be between a man and a woman. No offense to anybody out there, but that's how I was raised."
-Carrie Prejean (Miss California)
She stated her opinion, clear and simple. She acknowledged the other side, but reiterated that she was stating how she felt in response to a direct question. Do you want to know what Perez Hilton's reaction after the contest was to this answer?
The "B" word, a dumb bitch. And thinking the "C" word (pretty sure he didn't mean charming)! No apologies from Perez. He said that her answer was divisive, but I feel his asking the question was naturally divisive and polarizing. There was no remorse, no respect for opinion in the vicious attacks on her opinion. There were a number of factually wrong things said in the interview which I don't feel like enumerating here since some might stem from my innate bias against MSNBC. Either way, Perez says that this ladies opinion on gay marriage cost her the crown - is that fair?
I heard these attacks phrased earlier as coming from the "Gay Gestapo." This isn't meant to describe all gays, merely the handful that use their status as the perennial victim card. The ones that think being gay gives them the right to say whatever they want with no accountability. The ones that generally lower the general opinion of the gay community in general in my opinion.
Is there no double standard, no hypocrisy? Isn't the Miss America Pageant supposed to empower women, not just women with politically correct opinions?